June 8, 2025

…well, almost everything I told you is wrong. 😊

In my post, “Tuesday with Dan,” from 2018, I shared some universal marketing concepts that I previously didn’t know, or had somehow forgotten — and in a couple of instances, I just needed a kick in the pants from Dan Kennedy to keep them top of mind.

I made those concepts sound like they are all eternal truths–and they are close–however the beauty of direct response marketing is that for every action there is a reaction.

That is, for every rule of thumb there are exceptions, some are more obvious, and some are completely counter intuitive.

And even Dan would say that you should never assume you are right about everything.

When others point out what you might do differently, don’t get defensive; just take responsibility:

“You can never actually control what others think of you, nor, from the self-image standpoint, should you concern yourself with it…you must expect scrutiny, just and unjust criticism, and be emotionally unaffected. But you can control your behavior and response to it. That’s your choice. No one else’s choice. And no excuse replaces personal choice or responsibility.” – Dan Kennedy

I’m 100% sure that Dan will be “emotionally unaffected” when he finds out that I am contradicting everything he told me on that day in 2018.

In fact, one of you (who happens to be a prized student of Dan’s), reminded me that I violated one of Dan’s cardinal rules regarding how he thinks about “free stuff” with a recent post.

Dan’s student said:

“Dan would be very disappointed because you gave away too much great information for free”

Thankfully I am emotionally unaffected by this feedback…and still prepared to give you exceptions to what may be perceived as rules of thumb.

Besides quoting Dan, I know you are probably sick of me quoting Pablo Picasso (an artist of a different sort than Kennedy).

But let’s do it one more time:

“Learn the rules like a pro so you can break them like an artist”

Consistent with Picasso, I will share concrete exceptions to everything I talked about in “Tuesday with Dan” to prove the power of direct marketing; and that accepting almost anything as gospel truth in our world of measurable marketing is a huge mistake.

For context, I’m sure you are aware of the rules around brainstorming new ideas in a group or in a formal meeting which begins with the premise, “there are no bad ideas.”

Of course if we could be totally honest in those brainstorming sessions, we would love to call out every stupid idea… but we don’t…and being practitioners of direct marketing enables us to hold our tongues since we know that it is the audience of our product or service who will eventually tell us how stupid an idea is (or is not).

We also tend to refrain from calling out stupid ideas and embarrassing any friends or colleagues by saying this (to all of their stupid ideas):

“It’s testable”

If the idea is great, it will make the final cut for testing; and if the idea totally sucks, it won’t.

The same is true when you are on a hot seat collecting ideas from colleagues:

You have the rest of your life to reject any idea…and there is no upside rejecting it in the moment.

Brainstorming meeting or hot seat, you never have to be rude or hurt anyone’s feelings.

Just keep it to yourself that the idea sucks and say, “It’s testable.”

Therefore, in the spirit of “everything is testable,” I would like to play devil’s advocate with each of the ideas I shared in that 2018 post as “musts” for every marketer–just to show how this direct marketing thing works…and that even “musts are not musts all the time.”



Prospects (and even buyers) don’t always tell you the truth

While I love Dan’s concept of “marketing by walking around” (i.e. making sure you hang out where your customers hang out to understand them at the deepest level), be careful not to take everything they say or do literally…and be aware of false positives.

I will use the example of qualitative research—focus groups for example—where many people will tell you what you want to hear since they get their $100 and free cookies regardless.

I can’t tell you how many marketers I know—including me— took one or two passionate responses from specific customers and turned them into universal truths and trends about an entire customer pool –only to find out later that they were one or two out of thousands with a particular take on things—and most others felt very differently.

I still believe in this concept of marketing by walking around…and I always believe that quantitative research from buyers is very reliable…but the caution is not to believe everything you hear, especially with qualitative research.

In addition, always include your intuition and your accumulated knowledge about your avatar in the equation with whatever research you do.

The glory of young men is their strength,
And the splendor of old men is their gray head.

-Proverbs 20:27

AND

I love getting old…because I get so smart.

-Marty Edelston, Founder of Boardroom Inc.



Don’t confuse “overrepresentation” with “coincidence”

Once again, I believe in “intuitive list selection” inspired by Dan (i.e. finding out where your core customers are overrepresented by their occupations, interests or where they reside)—even without using overlays or computer technology.

But the caveat here is to not get carried away, not to act on everything just because you learn something new about your customers…and again, always be aware of false positives.

I love this example:

I remember a magazine executive many years ago telling me that for their publication for brides, they found out by “walking around” (i.e. not by any sophisticated research) that they had a huge pocket of newsstand buyers who were inner city, teenage girls…and they were buying the magazine as a “dream book,” not to make wedding plans (which was the intention of the magazine’s existence).

I think if they ever tried to sell to that audience directly, they would have had limited success…the magazine was fine as is for what the core audience desired.

And I would venture to say that specific promotion to inner-city teenage girls (if you could even identify them on a list) might not be all that effective and you might even alienate or embarrass them if not done elegantly.

In short, there was no marketing problem to solve or opportunity to exploit despite finding out something so specific about their readership that traditional research had not uncovered.



Figure out precisely when it makes sense to write one to many…one to a few…and one-to-one

I said in my 2018 post that “targeting different audiences demands creating different promotions to each one” –and I stand by that statement almost universally.

But there is also such a thing as overkill:

Be careful not to “over-segment” and “over personalize” (especially with low priced products and services) since it can lead to diminishing returns.

Depending on the economics of your business and what media you use, you can have too many versions of your best promotions, some of which might be talking to a less responsive audience who you won’t be able to scale no matter how intimately you talk to them.

This concept needs to be looked at in the context of whether you are a Business-to-Consumer (B-to-C) or Business-to-Business (B –to-B) marketer in addition to your economics and media mix.

This probably deserves its own post in the future…I made a note.

I’ll leave it here by saying that I love personalization and talking to people based on all you know about them…but everything still needs to pay out.



Not everyone spends all day in the supermarket

I emphasized in that previous post “the power of 5’s and 10’s” in pricing and also “supermarket pricing trumps flat pricing”…and I made it sound like $4.95 is always better than $5, $9.99 is always better than $10, $19.95 is always better than $20, $99 is always better than $100 and $999 is always better than $1,000 etc.

And while pricing this way is often most effective, like so many other things, “it’s testable.”

For low priced B-to-C offers it’s closer to a universal truth; in high priced B-to-B, for example, it depends.

Charging $10,000 for a high class, live event may be more effective and on brand than charging $9,999 (or even $9,995 for you wise guys out there).

And I will also maintain, depending on your marketing philosophy, branding and positioning, a $25,000 mastermind group will not have a “response advantage” at $24,995.

In fact, supermarket pricing for something as high priced and specialized as an expert mastermind group is cheapened when you price it that way (and I don’t mean by the $5 either).

Pricing always depends on the approach and messaging in all your other marketing materials and whether the pricing is consistent and congruent with who you are and what you represent.



The most dangerous number in business being the number “one” is a tougher concept to challenge

Diversification rules the day in marketing and in business…and of all the things from the post last week that are close to universals that I learned in my “Tuesday with Dan,” this one is hard to say “it’s testable.”

I believe that you test “one of anything” at your own risk.

“One” is both a dangerous and lonely number…your survival and having a business for the long term depends on how you diversify and test all kinds of promotions, media and products all the time.

So…I will not debunk for fear of losing my credibility with you….and Dan.



I love direct marketing because everything is testable and what you do only “works” when the prospect votes “yes” with their wallet.

There is no room for doing any kind of marketing that is not measurable.

One of the other things Dan Kennedy said in response to what I thought was a failed promotion was, “you don’t have a marketing problem; you have a math problem.”

He was responding to some results that had incredibly compelling up-front response numbers but low profitability when tracked to conversion.

He pointed out that we were not looking at the results through the lens of potential (and obvious) tests we had not done yet…and the potential lifetime value.

This led to a profound discussion which took what I thought were “half-empty results” into “half-full results” …which then led to even more profound (specific) ideas for additional promotions and tests, all with huge potential for breakthroughs.

I hated math in high school…but I love it now.



Warmly,



Brian



P.S. To prove how much I respect and value Dan Kennedy and his wisdom…and in case anyone thinks this blog post was anything but reverence for the man…I want to share his presentation from Titans of Direct Response from 2014…as timeless as ever…on the 7 things he includes in every pitch he crafts.

I’ve shared it with you in the past…and if you have never watched it, here’s your chance.

It is one of the best presentations I have ever seen in my 44 years of marketing.

Click here.

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